i read a book a couple years ago that full on lines up with my philosophy on everything.
i was born with (maybe inherited) an ALL or NOTHING personality. my natural bent with anything in life is to go all in or not go at all. so i like what Seth Godin had to say about Vince Lombardi's famous statement:
“Quitters never win and winners never quit.”
– Vince Lombardi.
but Seth says:
* “Bad advice. Winners quit all the time. They just quit the right stuff at the right time.”
To sum up this whole book and my philosophy as simply as i can = Don't Quit or else Don't Start.
so, be sure you're going all the way when you start or else you're just wasting precious time, energy, resources, etc... but if you do realize you need to quit then do it ASAP!
here are a couple awesome lines from Seth's great little book called The Dip:
“Extraordinary benefits accrue to the tiny minority of people who are able to push just a tiny bit longer than most. Extraordinary benefits also accrue to the tiny majority with the guts to quit early and refocus their efforts on something new. In both cases it’s about being the best in the world. About getting through the hard stuff and coming out the other side.”
Quit the wrong stuff.
Stick with the right stuff.
Have the guts to do one or the other.
“Strategic quitting is the secret of successful organizations.”
“The stupid thing to do is to start, give it your best shot, waste a lot of time and money, and quit right in the middle of the Dip.”
“If you’re going to quit, quit before you start.”
* “Don’t play the game if you realize you can’t be the best in the world.”
* “Don’t play the game if you realize you can’t be the best in the world.”
and i LOVED this part:
‘Never Quit’ = “What a spectacularly bad piece of advice. That ranks right up there with ‘Oh, that’s a funny dirty joke, let’s tell the teacher.’
Here is the advice that Lombardi and all these other peeps MEANT to give us = “never quit something with great long term potential just because you can’t deal with the stress of the moment.” Now that’s great advice!
“In order to get through the Dip [of the thing you're called to] you’ll need to quit everything else.”
ouch.
it's all about focus.
it's the 3 sport star who quits 2 sports he loves for the sake of the one he loves most and can be the best at.
it's the organization who quits 8 things they're doing well for the sake of the 1 thing they can do BEST.
and example after endless example...
